Tuesday, 8 May 2012

Can you keep a secret??


It was a dirty little secrete and they always come out.its always only a matter of time before they do......As i said,they always come out.

As at now, a couple of close friends and family members know that i like boys just as much as i like girls and most of them don't seem too bothered.And  even if they did get uncomfortable about the issue,there is nothing they can do about it.....I have a simple rule that most have come to understand even without me talking about it.

''if am not fucking you,who i choose to have fun with in bed,on the floor,on the kitchen counter,in the bathroom or in the great out doors, is none of your business!!.''

Someone emailed me last night to ask me how gay i am.So i gave him a number and told him  to look it up on  the Kinsey scale.I certainly wasn't impressed at how poorly he did that quick assignment because i got another email from the same person again this morning asking the exact same question.

I will refrain from calling him a retard and  instead of answering back on email because its rather self explanatory,I thought to myself,why not share if with everyone else.At lest that way,there will be less questions on that matter coming my way.

For those who are not familiar with it; The Kinsey scale, also called the Heterosexual-Homosexual Rating Scale.It attempts to describe a person's sexual history or episodes of his or her sexual activity at a given time. It uses a scale from 0, meaning exclusively heterosexual, to 6, meaning exclusively homosexual. In both the Male and Female volumes of the Kinsey Reports.And an additional grade, listed as "X", was used for asexuality.

The scale is as follows:
Rating Description
0 Exclusively heterosexual
1 Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2 Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3 Equally heterosexual and homosexual
4 Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5 Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6 Exclusively homosexual
X Non-sexual

I fall on number (3 )on the scale at this time in my life but for a long time my episodes were on number(2)....That wasn't so hard to understand now...was it??

My ideal scenario is to find someone in the same situation as me. Bisexual, dating a girl and a boy, something around there. Interested in being "buddies", friends..I mean real friends. Best friends. Be able to trust each other with everything, even our deepest, darkest secret...I had one of those but things got complicated when he wanted more than i could give.

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